If you counted Casino Night, it was the second time in his life Jim had said "I'm in love with you" and really meant it (Pam wanted to count the other times; Jim said No).

If you counted the Dundies, it was their third kiss (Jim counted the Dundies; Pam didn't).

If you didn't count all the times she had said it in a "just friends" way, it was the first time Pam had said "I love you" (Jim secretly counted all the other times).

If you stopped counting and just watched, you could see Pam's smile light up her eyes in a way it hadn't for months; if you listened, you could hear Jim's heart begin to heal.