"She was going to go insane if she kept wondering about things like that."

Truer words were never spoke. Well in this case thought, but I'm sure you get what I mean. It's interesting seeing Pam create this Pro/Con list. It's usually more seen as something Jim does, but here it's Pam. Granted it's also a good way to organize one's thoughts, but the JAM fan in me can't help but see this as yet another way Jim and Pam are meant for each other.
Yeah it was a rough day here for Pam, no question. I do like that after all is said and done, she still realizes Roy is still being his usual thoughtless self, and that there could be more than just one side to the relationship problems she's in right now.

Author's Response:

As always, good catch! I was indeed intending this to be a case where Jim's habits have become Pam's imperceptibly. Though note that hers is much less intricately woven than the Jim list we saw back at the start of the fic--she's not yet had the time to get entirely wrapped up in it in the way Jim has.

 And thanks for the note on her noticing Roy. I think this is going to be one of the (many) fics where "Phyllis's Wedding" and the aftermath are going to suck majorly for some of our cast.